How to Choose Flowers for a Dinner Party Host
A bottle of wine is easy. A dessert is thoughtful.
But flowers? Flowers say thank you in a way few other gifts can.
At Petals at Bibendum, we believe that every gesture matters – especially when someone’s invited you into their home. So whether it’s a formal dinner in Chelsea or a relaxed Sunday lunch in Notting Hill, here’s how to pick the perfect floral gift for a dinner party host.
1. Think About the Home’s Aesthetic
The best host gifts are considerate. Start by thinking about their style:
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Modern & minimal? Go for tonal whites or fresh greens
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Bold & eclectic? Try colour-forward seasonal stems
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Classic elegance? Roses, hydrangea, or lisianthus always work
🌿 Our Signature Pink Collection works beautifully for most homes – soft, structured, and easy to place.

2. Keep It Small – But Special
Dinner party bouquets shouldn’t overwhelm the room or the table.
Go for:
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Short to medium stem bouquets
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Neutral or soft tones
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Elegant wrapping that feels refined, not showy
And don’t forget:
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A handwritten gift note
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Discreet branding
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Optional ribbon or gift box on request
👉 Add a Luxury Candle or Note Card →

3. Make It Easy for the Host
They’re already cooking, plating, pouring wine…
The last thing they need is to find a vase.
That’s why we:
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Tie all bouquets with water packs for temporary display
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Offer same-day delivery direct to their door – no need to bring it yourself
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Can include your note, your name, or stay anonymous
👉 Schedule a Same-Day Flower Delivery →
4. Seasonal Blooms Always Win
A well-timed bouquet is never out of place.
We rotate our collections weekly with the freshest in-season florals, which often include:
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Chrysanthemums, tulips, lisianthus (Winter/Spring)
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Dahlias, hydrangea, peonies (Summer/Autumn)
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Garden roses, cosmos, ranunculus (year-round availability varies)
Just ask – and we’ll create a bouquet that feels right for the occasion and the season.
5. Going Formal? Go White or Green
If you’re headed to a more formal dinner – or aren’t sure of the host’s preferences – you can’t go wrong with:
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White Avalanche Roses
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Neutral tone seasonal mixes
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Olive or eucalyptus foliage
These feel clean, safe, and subtly luxurious – never out of place.
👉 Explore Our Avalanche Roses →

Frequently Asked Questions
Should I bring flowers to a dinner party?
Yes – flowers are a timeless and elegant gift. Choose a small, well-wrapped bouquet that won’t burden the host with setup or space.
Should I deliver them before or bring them with me?
Either is fine – but pre-scheduling a delivery is often appreciated, especially for hosts juggling last-minute prep.
What if I don’t know their taste?
Go for neutral colours (white, blush, green), and avoid heavily scented blooms. Our florists can guide you.
Make Your Thank You Bloom
The right bouquet says “thank you” with grace.
Whether you’re attending a formal dinner or popping in for homemade pasta – Petals at Bibendum will make sure your host feels seen, appreciated, and remembered.


